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“Life is the sum of all your choices.” ~Albert Camus
When we make choices, we have to own them. Most people do not own the choices they make. Oftentimes, they find someone to blame when things go wrong in their life. I just like to say, we were born with free will. Yes, we were taught to conform certain rules or guidelines to have certain “order” in our society. But we have to remember too that together with conformity, we have our own idea and choice.
People who are “peace-loving” do not necessarily help because in a way blind faith leads them. One way or another one has to see flaws or cracks in certain system. There is no perfect system.
We make our own life. Our decisions shape and mold our life into what we want it to be. We follow our path and if there are none, we make them. Does a person really tear a wall down to accommodate themselves? If it is needed, then why not? Life’s decisions can be checked and balanced. While one is still alive, one can create change and make their life better.
Let’s not look back and say I should have done that or I wanted this. Society today is not as strict as our ancestors. Surprisingly, society today is more accepting and open-minded. Summing up everything in your life, can you say you have done a great job? Can you look yourself in the mirror and honestly tell yourself, “My life is great! I can die tomorrow!” If you can not answer even yourself straightforwardly, “YES!” – Perhaps it’s time to do something to change your life. It’s never too late, remember, “Your life is a sum of all your choices.”
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Eric Tonningsen said:
To which I might ever so slightly (and unsolicited) amend, “…”YES!” – It is time to do something to change your life.” 🙂 (Never mind, Perhaps.) Thanks for clearly communicating something as simple yet impactful, as choice.
Women Sublime said:
You are most welcome Eric! 😀 Thanks for your comment.
shreejacob said:
Good post on choices! We tend to forget that we truly are responsible for our own lives and our world, that the power within us is so great to manifest and create our world. Free will and choice come with responsibility and we have to use them. We have to because that is a Universal Law, even not making a choice…is a choice!.
I’m at a happy place. I may not be where I thought I’d be, but I am where I am meant to be. Have I done a great job? By my standards, Yes! 🙂
Women Sublime said:
I agree! We have free will and this is powerful enough to free us from whatever is tying us down or keeping us from doing what is right for our us. Choosing something entails great responsibility and accountability. Choosing affects not only oneself but others as well. Thank you for your sharing your insight Shree. Blessings! ~Josefina
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